The Terrible Twos

OK OK - everyone said it was coming but I didn't believe them. It was true though - we have entered the TERRIBLE TWOS!!!!! We went to dinner Saturday night and Jeremiah wanted to take one of his toy trains in to the restaurant and was told "No". He then proceeded to throw himself down in the parking lot, the restaurant and out of the chair at the table! His Dad finally took him outside to cool off and once he apparently figured out he wasn't going to get his way (and the food was at the table) he pointed back into the restaurant and said "Mama" and pulled his Dad along and into the restaurant. He had another episode on Sunday when he didn't want to leave his cousins Chris and Heather and his Uncle and Aunt Tony and Lesa. It is quite something really - to see someone so small get so mad! We are getting multiple pieces of advice on how best to handle this - please feel free to submit anything that you feel is pertinent!